My Story: You Can Get Your Girlfriend Back Too…
“Hey, Chris here -
If you’re reading this then you are most likely in the same position I was a few months back. Just like me, you’ve lost your girlfriend and don’t know what to do to get her back.
If that’s the case, then keep reading. I’m going to tell you my story of how I pushed my girlfriend into leaving me, and how I took all the wrong moves trying to get her back. Don’t sweat it man, I finally discovered what worked and succeeded. Here’s the right way and the wrong way to get your girlfriend back…
So, what happened to me? Well, it was just a few months ago, my girlfriend Lisa was sitting with a group of our close friends glowing about picking out a house to build our futures in. She was really genuinely excited about our taking that step to a more permanent commitment, and so was I. Two weeks later, I found myself facing the fact that she needed some space and was moving in with a girlfriend. Not that she told me this fact, face to face. I was informed by a note taped to my 12-pak of Coke in the refrigerator, upon arriving home from work.
Was she really just moving out without discussing it with me?
Lisa and I had a great relationship. We had spent 3 years together. It made absolutely no sense at all that she would just up and move out, without any warning at all. It’s not like I was out cheating on her. We have been happily cohabiting for over a year now. Sure, just like any other couple we have had our arguments. I could think of nothing that would push her to just up and leave me. How could she just be gone?
I’ll admit it, I freaked out. Immediately dialling her cell and demanding to know why she left. That’s when my world went from tilt, to immediate crash and burn mode. My constant companion of 3 years screamed that I was a freak who wouldn’t give her a moment of peace. After 5 minutes of being chewed up and spit out, Lisa hung up on me. Two minutes later, I was blown away by her text …
“I left you a note. Don’t call. Don’t come here. I need space.”
From there I went into personal meltdown.
I couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t eat. I was a mess. I tried to convince Lisa that I loved her and needed her in my life. In an effort to give her some space, I only attempted to plead my case once every two or three days. Pretty soon she would only answer one text out of every twenty. I was desperate to get her back. Instead, things went from bad to worse, really fast.
After a month of dealing without her in my life, I got online and started searching. I wound up reading anything that might help me several sleepless nights in a row. Then I discovered this relationship repair manual called, The Magic of Making Up that warned it used unconventional methods. What better solution could possibly exist to solve my bizarre nightmare?
After all, if you keep doing the same thing you’ve always done …
You will still get the same results. I discovered I had done everything completely backwards when she left. I wanted get her back and was willing to give it a try. So I set right out in taking T. Dub’s advice following it word for word and step by step. It wasn’t easy but I stuck with it. If I was going to get back with my ex-girlfriend, I didn’t think giving up was going to create change.
T. W. Jackson is really clued in. The Magic of Making Up is like the bible on how to get your girl back. Lisa and I are back together again. Even after 3 months, I still get a thrill every day just having her back in my life. Listen man, if you are suffering with a break-up, do yourself a huge favor and read this book. You can get your girlfriend back. You just have to learn how to pull and not push.
